This podcast episode reminded me of Philip Roth's words in his book American Pastoral:
" The picture we have of one another. Layers and layers of misunderstanding. The picture we have of ourselves. Useless. Presumptuous. Completely cocked-up. Only we go ahead and we live by these pictures. "That's what she is, that's what he is, this is what I am. This is what happened "
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